I’m going to try to needlefelt an Ariel for the girlfriend as a present for when I visit her after her surgery.
Bring consent out of the bedroom. I think part of the reason we have trouble drawing the line “it’s not okay to force someone into sexual activity” is that in many ways, forcing people to do things is part of our culture in general. Cut that shit out of your life. If someone doesn’t want to go to a party, try a new food, get up and dance, make small talk at the lunchtable—that’s their right. Stop the “aww c’mon” and “just this once” and the games where you playfully force someone to play along. Accept that no means no—all the time.
can we talk about how during world war 2 when women were working in factories with that whole rosie the riveter thing, a few black women were actually working in factories and sharing the facilities with white women (i.e. meals, showers, etc.) and white women actually went on strike because they didn’t want to share the facilities and work with black women
they wanted everything to be separate
my dash has become a one direction dash wHAT IS HAPPENING